can we be friends?

alright, this is something i've thought about many 'o times in my life and was reminded of this again while watching a movie tonight. what is it that i'm speaking of? the challenge of making new friends as an adult.

let's be serious, at some point in time in our lives we have our friends. they are our friends and they're who we see, talk to, text with, shoot the shit, hang out with, etc., etc. and we stay friends with them forever and ever. but let's be honest, things happen, people change, move, etc., etc. and you're suddenly short a few friends and perhaps you want new friends. how do you meet new friends once you've "grown up"??

basically it comes down to this: it's fucking hard to meet new friends.

places where you can meet new friends as an adult: work. alright. let's pretend you work in a small office and you don't like the people you work with. you need to hope that they hire new awesome people that you will like and will be friends with.

but, let's say they don't do that. how the fuck do you make friends? internet? you can post ads on kijiji for friends, but isn't that weird.

i'm watching "i love you, man" with paul rudd (who i'm slowly starting to think is one of the funniest actors of all time) and the dude that plays marshall on how i met your mother (who i'm in love with). it's interesting because paul rudd's character is trying to find friends. i just find it interesting that there's an entire movie about it!

i guess i have nothing to say about this really. except meeting new friends once you've "grown up" is fucking hard.